Hey y’all! I hope your day went fabulously and you are enjoying the end of it. I told y’all I wasn’t giving up on this challenge and I was pushing for two entries today! Yay me!
There is one thing that has been said to me time and time again, I feel stuck. You’re only truly stuck if you allow yourself to be.
I know that there are times that it feels like nothing is going to change and that everything is truly impossible but it really isn’t. I have been there trust me. No lie, I am probably there at least once a month. I have an issue that I don’t like when things stay the same for too long and I get antsy and feel like I need to change things NOW. Yes, that means I get this way with relationships. It is not the best thing. Lol. I have learn that just because I “feel” stuck I am usually not.
Look, I know sometimes it feels like you are on a merry go round on warp speed with everything going on but you have to turn the noise around you down. Is it easy? Hell no. But if you want to survive, you better get it together. There is always a way out of the darkness. You may not see the way out right away but there is a way, I promise.
First, you have to stop making excuses. You are in the position you are in because of the things you have done. No one has forced you into that place and no one is forcing you to stay there. Whether it is within your job, life, love or health. You have the power to change. You HAVE to give up the excuses and accept that YOU did this to YOU. You have to be completely honest and open with yourself. Remember that is when the healing and change actually starts. When you accept that you
messed up screwed yourself over.
Next, you have to change your thinking. The “woe is me” bullshit will not get you anywhere in life and no one is going to come slap you in the head to tell you to wake up. You have to smack yourself in the face and get it together.
Like seriously, get your shit together. Myself nor anyone else can force you to get out of your own damn head and make you change. Maybe this is the final wake up call that you get to finally move but flipping MOVE.
The one thing I can do is be your cheerleader and tell you that you are doing better. I will be here for anyone that needs it. I will support you. That much I can promise you but I can’t make you change or want to change. I get stuck more than you think, trust me. I feel myself spiraling a lot and then I remember I have the power to stop the spiral.
Just keep pushing and hoping. You’ve got this. Have an awesome day y’all!
– ♥ Lindsey